[He thought it was good advice?! When she flinches, he withdraws his hand like he received an electric shock.]

But-- I cannot tell you what to do if you do not yet know your feelings! [He takes a breath and forces himself to give a calmer answer.]

If you decide you reciprocate his feelings and would like to date him, then you can accept his offer. If you do not reciprocate, you can politely decline, and hope he will be happy to continue your friendship.

[Is that... what she wanted to hear???]